While your wedding day is primarily a celebration of you and your spouse’s love, it’s also about the love you share with close friends and family. In truth, without the support you’ve both received from loved ones over the years, you wouldn’t be where you are today. This is especially true of mothers, who often put time and finances into ensuring your special day is as amazing as possible. It’s easy to get caught up in the excitement of your big day, but don’t forget to take some time to show both of your mothers just how much they mean to the two of you. If you’re looking for a meaningful—and relatively inexpensive—gift to show your appreciation, consider one of the following options.
1. “Open When” Letter Series
A set of “Open When” letters are incredibly sweet and can be used for a variety of occasions. The concept is simple: you write a letter that your mother will open at different times throughout the next several months. A few great examples:
- Open when you’re missing me.
- Open when I’ve done something to upset you.
- Open when you need to laugh.
- Open when you’re thinking about the past.
The options are endless! Once you’ve written each of your letters, combine them with related extras, like movie passes, photos, jewelry, or even just glitter.
2. Tree Sapling or Potted Flowers
Does your mom love gardening? To commemorate your special day, why not give her something she will enjoy for many years to come. Buy a young tree sapling and offer to plant it in her yard. Alternatively, consider giving her some perennial flowers. Either way, she’ll have beautiful greenery to remind her of the part she played in your special day.
3. Wedding Survival Kit
For many parents, big milestone events like weddings are filled with immense joy and, in some cases, tears. On a day when emotions are running high, you can never quite predict exactly what will come in handy. So why not plan to give your mother a goodie bag full of items that may be useful as the day progresses? Purchase a fun bag you know she’ll love or swing by the craft store for some supplies to decorate one of your own.
But what should you put inside it? Consider including tissues or an embroidered handkerchief to help dry away those happy tears. You can also pack in a few of your mom’s favorite snacks, as wedding days can run long and food isn’t always readily available. A fun cup or flask filled with your mother’s favorite drink may also be appropriate. Mints are another great option to freshed breath before the receiving line. Finally, you should also plan to include something personal as well. This can be a custom CD with all the songs you both love, a handwritten note of appreciation, or a framed picture of the two of you together.
4. Handmade Blanket
Handmade blankets are another great gift option for mothers. These have become more and more popular and your mom is sure to love this handcrafted gift. If you don’t personally know how to crochet, knit, or sew, consider asking a close family friend if they would be willing to help you make the blanket (or make it for you). Not only can you choose colors and a design you know your mother will like to make it more personal, but you can choose the most functional size as well. Whether you know your mom would prefer a handmade throw of a blanket large enough to fit her king-sized bed, this beautiful gift can be used to keep her warm for years. Additionally, crochet and knit blankets are relatively inexpensive. Depending on the yarn you select for the project, the biggest investment will be your time, which shouldn’t be an issue if you start working on the blanket early.
5. Spa and Pamper Kit
Who doesn’t love a spa day? While you can easily obtain a gift certificate to your mom’s favorite spa location, you may want to consider creating a spa day basket instead. Include items such as a scented candle, relaxing CD, soft robe, bath salts, and body lotion. Not only will your mom feel pampered, but she can enjoy the experience without even leaving home!
6. Photo Album
It’s no secret that moms love pictures of their family. Why not create a custom photo album and include pictures of the two of you together over the years? Consider selecting some special images from the day of your birth and then hit all of the special moments afterward. Depending on the layout, you can even include handwritten captions or notes next to the photos you select. Make sure you leave a section at the end for more pictures of the wedding, as well as a spot for your parents’ wedding photo to go beside your own.
7. Friends Forever Jewelry
Simple and sweet, “friends forever” jewelry is a beautiful way to show just how much your mother means to you. Depending on your mother’s personal preferences, it’s easy to find bracelets, necklaces, or key chains in all sorts of colors and designs. Want to make the gift even more special? Plan to wear your half of the set on your wedding day!